Boxing Day 26th December

I expected to sleep in today but woke at my usual 6:30 am.  I was so tired coming home last night I nearly fell asleep at the traffic lights on the corner of Toorak and Tooronga roads. 5 mins from home thank goodness. We had a fun day with Ziggy providing most of the entertainment with his cute ways and happy little chatter. He adores Uncle Chico(Nick) and Lindo( Rebecca Nick's partner) and played games and sat with her. She is so loving and patient with him. He was playing hide and seek and was priceless with his hands over his eyes and counting numbers erratically. We ate in Roger's backyard and he had decorated one of his trees as a Christmas tree so all the presents were under the tree. Ziggy handed them out to everyone. He has this very purposeful stance with his little arms bent and fists clenched so he runs with his arms pumping. It is very endearing. He received lots of presents and was very keen to play with his tennis racquet. He had everyone involved throwing the ball so he could hit. He managed a few. He has pretty good eye hand coordination. He had bubbles too which are always fun. Christmas is more joyous with children around. Robert came laden with gifts from he and Wanda  who remained home with her mother. Mrs Leckie is not doing so well these days which is hard for them.

We had a lovely easy day and then when everyone left Roger and I watched an episode of Game of Thrones, took a walk,  and got ready for more visitors. I am going to miss Roger when he moves to Sydney for his new job. Rogers friends came and the evening was delightful as they are lovely people and I was joined by Juliette, Roger's Korean friend and Chris's Mother Jenny down from NSW. Other couples were hosting parents as well and I was struck by how considerate and caring they were when they talked of their 'in-laws'.  It seemed they were more generous than many heterosexual couples.

More delicious food was consumed of course and wine and present swapping. They gave lovely thoughtful and some fun presents. It was an evening full of friendship and love. Roger will miss these friends very much when he moves. 

The Christmas season is starting to find new rhythms and traditions. We can't cling to the old ways but must adjust and be glad for what we can share together.